10 Things Not to Do on Dating Apps

Dating apps are like buffets — lots of options, but not everything is worth putting on your plate. If you want to stand out for the right reasons (and avoid becoming a cautionary tale), here’s what not to do.

1. Don’t Use Group Photos as Your Main Pic

   We don’t want to play “Guess Who” for a date.

2. Don’t Start with “Hey”

   Put in at least as much effort as ordering a sandwich.

3. Don’t Lie About Your Height, Age, or Job

   They’ll find out. Probably before dessert.

4. Don’t Post Only Gym Mirror Shots

   You’re not selling protein powder, are you?

5. Don’t Ghost Without Reason

   You’re not a magician; disappearing isn’t cute.

6. Don’t Overshare Trauma on the First Chat

   Save the deep dive for after coffee.

7. Don’t Copy-Paste Messages

   If you can send it to 20 people, it’s not flirting; it’s spam.

8. Don’t Use Weirdly Aggressive Bios

   “Don’t waste my time” makes people want to… waste your time.

9. Don’t Post Old Photos

   If you had hair in 2010 and don’t now, own it.

10. Don’t Forget to Smile

    You’re trying to attract someone, not scare them away.

Final Thought:

Dating apps are just the introduction; the real connection happens offline. Be honest, be kind, and remember- no one ever said “I knew it was love when they sent me a one-word opener.”